Stage one of seven
Sending of the Letter
Incwadi Yokucela Usuku
The young man sends a letter from his home to the young woman's home. In it, his family asks to come on a chosen day to ask for a new kinship.
Insizwa ithumela incwadi esuka kubo kwayo ihambise kubo kwentombi, leyoncwadi iqukethe isicelo sokuba umndeni wakubo kwensizwa uyafisa ukuza uzocela isihlobo esisha.
What happens
The letter asks that the young man's family may come on a chosen day to ask for a new kinship with the young woman's home.
Incwadi iqukethe isicelo sokuba umndeni wakubo kwensizwa uyafisa ngosuku oluthile ukuza uzocela isihlobo esisha kulowomuzi wakubo kwentombi.
If the young woman's family agree, that becomes the day of the visit.
Uma bevuma kubo kwentombi, kuba yilo usuku lolo lokuvakasha.