To the [surname] family,
We, the [surname] family, write to let you know that our son, [groom], wishes to marry your daughter, [bride].
With your permission, we ask to visit your home to ask for her hand and to begin lobola negotiations.
We will be a group of [number] people. Please let us know which day suits you for us to visit.
You can reach [contact] on [phone].
With respect,
[name]
On behalf of the [surname] family
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